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Rina Groeneveld
Rina Groeneveld
🦚 Why I chose my abusive dad over my mom

Oct 9, 2026

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7 min read

🦚 Why I chose my abusive dad over my mom

Your child’s choice may not mean what you fear it means.

Rina Groeneveld
Rina Groeneveld
🦚Feeling powerless in your custody battle?

Oct 2, 2026

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8 min read

🦚Feeling powerless in your custody battle?

Start here...

Rina Groeneveld
Rina Groeneveld
🦚When your child drops a bombshell

Sep 25, 2026

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8 min read

🦚When your child drops a bombshell

You want to ask 20 questions. Here's what to do instead.

Rina Groeneveld
Rina Groeneveld
🦚When your child starts sounding like your ex

Sep 18, 2026

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5 min read

🦚When your child starts sounding like your ex

You recognize the words. But what should you do next?

Rina Groeneveld
Rina Groeneveld
🦚Think your situation isn't “bad enough”?

Sep 11, 2026

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5 min read

🦚Think your situation isn't “bad enough”?

Two women said the same thing to me this week

Rina Groeneveld
Rina Groeneveld
🦚When your documentation makes YOU look like the problem

Sep 4, 2026

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8 min read

🦚When your documentation makes YOU look like the problem

The problem with a “reasonable” ex

Rina Groeneveld
Rina Groeneveld
🦚You gave your ex what he wanted

Aug 28, 2026

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5 min read

🦚You gave your ex what he wanted

So why doesn't he stop?

Rina Groeneveld
Rina Groeneveld
🦚Still being told to forgive your ex?

Aug 21, 2026

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4 min read

🦚Still being told to forgive your ex?

What I do instead

Rina Groeneveld
Rina Groeneveld
🦚The mediator told her to put a dollar in a jar

Aug 14, 2026

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5 min read

🦚The mediator told her to put a dollar in a jar

When neutrality shifts the burden to the wrong person

Rina Groeneveld
Rina Groeneveld
🦚The family court advice that could cost you your case

Aug 7, 2026

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6 min read

🦚The family court advice that could cost you your case

Don't let someone else's court loss become your strategy

Rina Groeneveld
Rina Groeneveld
🦚98.3% of us are alienators now

Jul 31, 2026

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7 min read

🦚98.3% of us are alienators now

Coming soon to a custody report near you

Rina Groeneveld
Rina Groeneveld
🦚Paralyzed by your ex's texts?

Jul 24, 2026

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6 min read

🦚Paralyzed by your ex's texts?

Here's what stops them working on you

Rina Groeneveld
Rina Groeneveld
🦚When his politest words are a threat only you can hear

Jul 17, 2026

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5 min read

🦚When his politest words are a threat only you can hear

The double language of covert coercive control

Rina Groeneveld
Rina Groeneveld
🦚An abuser's email, decoded line by line

Jul 10, 2026

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7 min read

🦚An abuser's email, decoded line by line

Eight moves, one purpose—and the four-sentence reply that beat them all

Rina Groeneveld
Rina Groeneveld
🦚Taking down an “impenetrable” case

Jul 3, 2026

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4 min read

🦚Taking down an “impenetrable” case

It's not empathy, it's strategy

Rina Groeneveld
Rina Groeneveld
🦚When your brain assumes it’s your fault

Jun 26, 2026

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4 min read

🦚When your brain assumes it’s your fault

(even when it isn’t)

Rina Groeneveld
Rina Groeneveld
🦚These choices brought me shame...

Jun 19, 2026

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6 min read

🦚These choices brought me shame...

...I didn't deserve. Nor do you.

Rina Groeneveld
Rina Groeneveld
🦚A Stanford study just handed you a courtroom advantage

Jun 12, 2026

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4 min read

🦚A Stanford study just handed you a courtroom advantage

Why your ex’s AI “superpower” is actually a weakness

Rina Groeneveld
Rina Groeneveld
🦚Why your ex's lies work better than your truth

Jun 5, 2026

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9 min read

🦚Why your ex's lies work better than your truth

Here's how to turn that around

Rina Groeneveld
Rina Groeneveld
🦚When your ex is writing to the judge, not to you

May 29, 2026

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7 min read

🦚When your ex is writing to the judge, not to you

Recognizing and countering the narrative they're creating

Rina Groeneveld
Rina Groeneveld
🦚A cake, an oven mitt, and a Supreme Court victory

May 22, 2026

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5 min read

🦚A cake, an oven mitt, and a Supreme Court victory

The court finally named the harm

Rina Groeneveld
Rina Groeneveld
🦚Unhappy Mothers' Day

May 15, 2026

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5 min read

🦚Unhappy Mothers' Day

How to reclaim it

Rina Groeneveld
Rina Groeneveld
🦚2 words to stop your ex cold

May 8, 2026

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4 min read

🦚2 words to stop your ex cold

"Yes, and...?" He's done

Rina Groeneveld
Rina Groeneveld
🦚What's the point of documenting my health?

May 1, 2026

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6 min read

🦚What's the point of documenting my health?

Your health record could be worth $100,000

Rina Groeneveld
Rina Groeneveld
🦚Your body's keeping score

Apr 24, 2026

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6 min read

🦚Your body's keeping score

So should you

Rina Groeneveld
Rina Groeneveld
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